The heated message your thumb is hovering over — read it as the person receiving it first.
I'm about to send this: [paste it]. Read it as the person receiving it. What lands as an attack? What will I regret tomorrow? Rewrite it to get what I actually want.
Replace anything in [brackets] with your real thing. The prompt is deliberately short — resist the urge to pad it.
The heated text or email your thumb is hovering over.
When you're heated, you write to win the moment — not to get what you actually want. Reading it through the receiver's eyes catches every jab you can't feel from your side of it, while keeping every point that matters.
The rewrite keeps every point and cuts every jab. Same message, none of the shrapnel. Send that one.
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The same method, pointed at the situations people actually hit.
I'm about to send this to [family member]: [paste it]. Read it as them. What lands as an attack? What will I regret at the next holiday? Rewrite it to get what I actually want.
I'm about to send this to my manager: [paste it]. Read it as them. What lands as an attack? What could hurt me later? Rewrite it to get what I actually want.
I'm about to post this reply publicly: [paste it]. Read it as a stranger scrolling past. What lands as defensive? What will I regret tomorrow? Rewrite it to get what I actually want.
Before the hard conversation, make AI argue the other side at full strength.
The shortest prompt in the vault. Two words, and they find the thing you can’t see.
Stop starting. Version zero exists so version one can.
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